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Resisting the Echo Chamber

A post I wrote for Tabor MTC’s blog “Manna” on the challenges of listening to different perspectives and voices in a cultural context that encourages us to only engage with those we “like” …

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echo One of the highlights for me at last year’s Rethinking Conference was a talk by Mark Scott, Managing Director of the ABC (and a Christian). He spoke about the fragmentation of the mainstream media and the impact of social media. And he introduced me to the idea of the “echo chamber,” an enclosed space where sound reverberates.

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The extraordinary and the ordinary … or today would be a good day to be in Venice

Venice 2

It’s been a while since I did one of my Monday travel posts, but as I thought about where I’d like to re-visit today, I realised that the photo above (which hangs on my living room wall) was taken exactly ten years ago today, when I spent a day in Venice. So I’m thinking it would be good to imagine having another day there today!

View from Bell Tower 3

Of course, Venice has a reputation as being one of the most romantic and beloved places in the world. It was one of the places I had most looked forward to visiting. And in many ways it did live up to expectations. But at the same time, I also found it in many ways an ordinary place, with ordinary people, living ordinary lives … and I’m drawn to consider what it means to appreciate both of those at the same time.

What did I love about Venice?

Architecture, history, beauty, culture, art, theatre … no matter what time of year, there is always plenty going on in Venice.

Duke & Duchess

Like so many before me, I loved seeing St Mark’s Square and imagining the parades and carnivals that have been held there over hundreds of years.

San Marco Square Panorama B2

I loved looking up at the 500 year old bell tower and thinking about all the history it has witnessed …

San Marco Bell Tower 1

… and looking down from its lofty heights on the city below.

Bell Tower View Panorama 3

St Mark’s Basilica itself is an opulent church with symbolic meaning in all its decorations.

San Marco church Panorama 1

Of course, no trip to Venice is complete without a gondola ride,

Gondola Station

passing by the Bridge of Sighs,

Bridge of Sighs

the Rialto Bridge,

Rialto Bridge 1

and the Castello Towers.

Castello Military Tower 2

But I also loved getting away from the crowds and catching the public water taxi to some of the smaller islands of the city,

Burano canal 1

seeing places where people live their every day lives seemingly unchanged from days gone by …

Canal 4

… and places long since abandoned, where time has brought obsolescence or decay.

Ruined Island 2

What did I learn from Venice?

When I think about Venice, I think of the juxtaposition between the spectacle and the mundane. Not in a way that disappoints me, but in a way that reminds me that both are part of life. There is one set of things we in a sense put on “show” to the world – the exterior, the achievements, the excitement, the engagement. And that is not false. It is an essential part of who we are. But it is not the whole story. There is also the everyday stuff of life we don’t often take photos of or write poems about, but is happening every day within every person, and within every city. The routines of life, the day to day, the mundane, the ordinary. And it is no less important just because it is less flashy. There is beauty to be found in the every day rhythms of rest and work. There is purpose to be found in the necessary tasks of life.

San Marco Domes

One of the reasons people (including me) often love to travel is to see the spectacles, to marvel at the wonders, to appreciate the extraordinary. But I often find in my travels that I am equally drawn to the ordinariness of life in each place. To the way someone travels to work, or provides food for their family, or makes their house a home.

Burano canal 3

I’m not sure if I am explaining this well, or if anyone else feels the same way. But sometimes when I contemplate the spectacles and wonder, it makes me pause and consider the mundane and routine, and sometimes it makes me marvel anew at this thing called life. Because one cannot exist without the other. The extraordinary can only exist because of the ordinary.

The beauty of a sunset can only come after a full day of the sun doing its routine job of providing light.

Sunset 3

I’m not in Venice today, I’m just at home doing the mundane tasks of an ordinary day. But perhaps remembering Venice today will help me to pause and appreciate some of those ordinary things of life. What about you?

Australia Day. It’s complicated.

There is much to celebrate about living in Australia today. We have incredible natural beauty, material riches, social opportunities, political freedom, and cultural innovation. A national day is a good occasion to name and reflect upon all of these things. I’m grateful for my country.

There is also much to grieve over in living in Australia today. Issues of domestic violence, suicide, binge drinking and racism, among others, are too often hidden behind our “she’ll be right mate” attitudes. A national day is also a useful opportunity to reflect on who we want to be and what we need to change. I want to participate in seeing my country grow.

There is a huge challenge in marking this day of all days as our national day. Two hundred and twenty seven years ago today we didn’t win a battle or make a political declaration or join together with a vision for a nation. We invaded someone else’s land, and we still haven’t really come to terms with the systemic and generational problems we wrought upon those people. I grieve for my indigenous brothers and sisters.

There is also great irony in remembering the day people like me arrived in this country uninvited by boat in the current context of our national policies and attitudes towards those who make that same kind of journey today. It’s difficult to sing the second verse of a national anthem which proclaims we have “boundless plains to share” when we imprison children whose parents have tried to take us up on that offer. I am horrified by my complicity in how my country is treating refugees.

Australia Day is a complicated day.

Today, many Australians will enjoy a day off work, head to the beach, share a barbie with mates, watch fireworks, wear green and gold (or red, blue and white – even that is complicated!) Others will attend ceremonies honouring some of our citizens for acts of bravery or lifetimes of service, or become citizens themselves, pledging to play their part in making this country what it can yet become.

Today, I am inspired by some good friends to add to my Australia Day some practices that acknowledge the complicatedness of this day. I want to pause to acknowledge what happened on this day. Rather than pretend we can forget the past, I want to remember it rightly. My friend Julian wrote a thought-provoking piece that gives me some ideas on how to begin to do this. And I want to seek God’s forgiveness and favour on this land and all her people, no matter who they are or where they have come from. My friend Ellen wrote a beautiful lament last year that gives me some words to begin to do this. I hope they will inspire you as well.